Ah, I knew I shouldn't have done this whilst half asleep and operating solely on vague memories of stories overheard. I want to suggest using the Bereshit Rabbah, which is a midrash collection, but this has the reverse problem in that Lilith is only named "the First Eve". If there was a section for just, say, Jewish midrashim, that would be my ideal solution as that would the Alphabet, the Rabbah, and the Babylonian Talmud as reference? But I feel I am asking too much with this, so I'd equally settle for something exploring Adam and Lilith's relationship solely.